How to learn to influence people with your voice?
Video chat has many undoubted advantages, you can not only hear but also see companion. Visuals in us strong, but audial is not far behind. Remember, communicating in chatroulette, you do not want to influence the person using your voice? Would not you like to talk passionately, calmly, eloquently, snobbish, inspiration, indifferently, seductively and shrill - all on your own? Voice - is extremely effective tool with which you can have a strong influence on the interlocutor. Speaking in a video chat, do not allow yourself to influence - influences themselves.
What would impress the listener, it must first be interested. Remember, when you are traveling in a train, which gives interesting way? This is constantly changing different scenes outside window. And as soon as view from window for long time doesn’t change, people start to doze. Such is human psychology and the conversation is no exception. So all you need to do - is add variety to your speech, try to make maximum use of the capabilities of its voice.
Reach your voice
There are many ways how to make your voice richer and more varied:
- Rhythm - long and short phrases.
- Tempo - fast, slow, moderate.
- Height - low and high sounds.
- The resonance - chest rich, deep abdominal.
- Volume - softly, almost in a whisper and very loud.
- Silence - filled inner life pause.
- Vowels - in which all the emotions. Feel it!
- Stress - it all the weight of words.
- Agree - they create a clear and precise understanding.
- Tone - hail-fellow, good-natured, mocking, regular, sharp, warm, austere, gentle, and so on.
Try all of these tools, change voice, saying, fast and slow, high and low, loud and quiet, vigorous and indifferent. You will not notice how the sounds will be fully obeying your thoughts. Your interlocutors should not miss.
Video chat allows you to meet different people and not all of them cause in feelings of friendship. It's always there. Your state of mind affects the sound of your voice, and the last - how do you feel about his interlocutor. Here the rule is simple - a positive attitude towards people and your voice will be more attractive to them.
The confirmation will tell the story of a singer. Her accompanist was late for the performance, but she did not lose, sat on the edge of the stage and began to talk with the audience, joking, talking about her life. When 40 minutes later accompanist finally came, the singer and her audience already experienced feelings of friendship and the concert gas special warmth.